Dealing With The Soldiers Home From War

If you are the spouse of someone who is currently serving overseas you are probably excited for the day they will be returning home. You might have heard that it is really soon and for that you couldn’t be happier. You are excited to think about the day they come home and life going back to normal. Well, the sad news is that once they come home things won’t be likely to return back to normal. At least not for some time anyway. If you are anticipating their arrival home then chew on these few things as you deal with a solider returning home.

Their perspective has changed. While it might not be pleasant to think about you can certainly say that you are not going to get back the same person who left. They have seen things that you can only imagine and wouldn’t ever want to. When it comes to the world around them they have their own thoughts and feelings on it and it may not be the same kind that they went to war with.

You have to be clear to them that you want them to feel comfortable at home and normal again but be ready for them to not feel normal anymore. You cannot imagine what they have gone through. They may need to sleep in a separate room or they might not like to be approached from behind. These might seem like quirks but they are essential to keeping them feeling safe.

Just know that making them feel better will take time and they may need to have the help of a licensed therapist. They need someone who has had specialty in dealing with soldiers who are returning home from war. With special help your loved one can deal with coming home form war.

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Make Peace Not War – Makes Sense From A Pragmatic And Rational Point Of View As Well

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War is often described as a continuation and extension of politics. However, to equate war with political negotiations and discussions does not make sense. It is the most unproductive and most futile way of settling political issues.

For starters, war leads to too many difficulties and complications. From death of population; one of the most valuable resources of the country, to loss of natural resources towards the war effort – there is wastage all around. At the end of the day, the gains earned by the nation is bartered and frittered away in few years.

Just take a look at some of the big wars that have been fought in the world in the past few decades. In most cases, it was done to either restore balance of power or to tilt the balance irretrievably in favor of one force. However, all these instances saw great and powerful nations ending up with a bloody nose despite the fact that the opponent nation was many times smaller and may times weaker.

On the whole, the military consumes too much resources and provides very little benefit. Instead of fighting a war, it makes more sense to spend many years thrashing out a political settlement. Of course, the results were not be as glamorous and spectacular as use of force would be. However, the results that these negotiations will bring forth will be permanent.

From a strictly economic point of view and with an eye on long term benefits, there is absolutely no denying that peaceful negotiations are much better than war. If one includes the social cost of war and impact of telling the population that it is acceptable to kill others just because they are the enemy, one realizes that wars can be very harmful for the social fabric and for the well being of any nation.

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War Causes Death, Misery And Leaves The Survivors Vulnerable To Disorders

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Most war movies show the hero killing the enemy and coming back victorious to lead a happy life. However, the truth is that war veterans suffer from numerous stress disorders caused by the war experience. From exposure to chemicals and other harmful substances and emotional impact of killing large number of human beings to seeing friends, colleagues and seniors being killed on the field – there are numerous reasons why a veteran soldier comes back after war in a disturbed state.

People fail to understand that the veteran soldier will no longer be in a position to act as a productive member of the country and that he or she is also a casualty of the war. The person may be living but the person’s productive utility to the nation comes down drastically. In such a scenario, it is essential to consider this as a negative impact of war.

Veterans suffering from stress disorders cannot be simply forgotten. They will have to be treated and will have to be provided for. The families of the veterans will have to make sacrifices for many years after the war comes to an end. The government will have to incur expenses for medical treatment of the veteran. All this is has to be done when benefits arising from the war would have stopped accruing a long time ago.

From morality point of view, the stress and confusion that wars cause to veterans is immense. From the social point of view, the presence of such individuals poses uncomfortable questions for a society that wishes to reach the utopian stage where all individuals treat others with goodwill and respect. From the economic point of view, it is a huge drain because not only is fighting very expensive but the after effects of war also places a huge burden on the economy.

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